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Well I thought it was time to do something non technical. I was going about the archives trying to find a post I had written about an upcoming movie. Well this movie has been announced for a while now. It's called Phat GIrlz starring Monique I believe her name is.

I was going to put this into a podcast but I thought I would post the audio clips that I was going to use in the show. Because without my laptop my editing situation is currently limited.

Audio Commentary from PCH

Now what Mark Yoshi Whatever from the Pacific Coast Hellways is speaking of is the movie Phat Girlz. But one topic in particular really strikes me. This is about how a Fat Woman tends to have a large support group. (Excuse the Pun) To tell them they are beautiful and support them so that they feel beautiful and all this other bull shit. But men do not have this sort of group or support from people. If a guy is fat he knows he is fat and isn't put into an illusional world that they are attractive.

Me personally I hated myself so I bust my ass going to the gym 4-5 days a week and eating healthy and so far the pay off has been great. Mostly with confidence and so forth that I didn't need anybody else to do so. Though I do enjoy getting the compliment but I don't need it.

But I will admit that I do like a girl with a little meat on her. But not to much I think there is a healthy medium. But the girl in this film is what I would say is just way out of my league. I like to hug a girl and not hug myself. Though I also tend to like a taller girl so I don't have to pick her up to get a decent hug. But I digress.

Some woman pull of big but most do not. Though I find that most big woman have an issue with the world they seem bitter and want to go around saying that Big is beautiful. But most healthy woman never really seem to make an issue out of the deal.

It has been shown that Fat Woman do make less then a fat guy. But most fat woman I know tend to be rather lazy and want things done for them so I am not going to disagree with the study.

Dalton Conley, director of NYU's Center for Advanced Social Science Research, and NYU graduate student Rebecca Glauber found that a 1 percent increase in a woman's body mass index -- a measure of weight relative to height -- pushes family income down by about 0.6 percent.

It goes on further to say.

"Body mass does not reduce [men's] economic status outcomes, it does not reduce their likelihood of marriage, and it does not increase their likelihood of divorce, separation, or widowhood," the researchers wrote.

"Women who are heavier for their height tend to have lower chances of getting married in the first place. If they do get married they tend to marry spouses who have less earning power and they also have a higher likelihood of getting divorced...."

What pisses me off about the woman that marry into the lower bracket are that they want to have kids. Which usually tends to bring around another set of headaches and problems and ideas and things that piss me off that I will save for a later commentary.

I do find myself dating lots of different types of women. But they never seem to have that apark I want. Most of my friends tell me everytime they talk to me I am mentioning some new girl they have never heard of. But as I talked about in a Podcast I do think I date a lot of women just because I am lonely and I come off as desperate to not be alone and that is a huge turn off to most women. If it isn't it would seem that it gives them all the playing cards and they get bored quickly and things fizzle out.

Which as I work on the 1 Degree of Seperation to get rid of that I made an observation today while at the store. This random guy buying Chips and Beer and some other BBQ/Party type goods saw a ring on the cashiers finger. Asked if she was married she said No and then he said something like "Well You should let me take you out on a date sometime" Just like knowing her for less then two seconds. I thought it was rather a risky move but you know what he had the fucking balls to do that. He got turned down and moved on with life. As Tom Cruise said in Risky Business sometimes you just have to say "What the Fuck" So I thoguht to myself "What the Fuck" Who gives a shit if I get turned down on a date there are 6.X billion people on the planet. Plenty of other women to accept me or turn me down. No reason in the world to worry if you lose 1 or 5 or even 10.

Everybody is a person if you are not willing to accept someone else it's a mutual loss because everyone has something to offer everyone. The key is just finding out what you have to offer and get it out there.

Like most would say that I am Smart, Funny, Witty, Sweet, Charming, etc. Great qualities but when it comes to getting a date I am a god damn fucking pussy. As the KGB Mafia Man and me discuss frequently 1 Degree of Seperation you are the only one who is powerful enough to make a change in your life. You will never change because someone tells you that you should. You have to want to. When you get into a relationship people tend to think you can change a man or change a woman. You want the guy to clean the house. He won't unless he wants to or to appease the woman for 15 mins so he can get what he wants. The man can't make a woman to cook. You have to be in a relationship because you like that person for who they are.

When you get into a relationship or the future of what comes down the road if you are to damn stupid to open up your eyes and ears and realize what you are getting then breaking up is going to happen and you should only be pissed at yourself because you choose to look the other way when it came down to something that bothered you.

I will bring one example that happened in the past from myself. My exgirlfriend made this cheesecake one time. It was horrible and gross. But I wanted to make her smile so I could get some action and happy girlfriend = happy boyfriend. So I told her it was great and delicious. When in reality it was horrible and I have seen things that I would presume taste better after sitting in a maggot filled garbage for weeks. But she made it and I would eat it or find ways to give it to the dog or whatever. But by not saying anything and not realizing what I was doing I set myself up for a failure but disappointing her when the truth came out months later.

Since then I have been rather straight up and honest about everything. People say I am rude at times or negative. But I am not setting myself up for something bad in the future. But there are times when the time to lie is necessary. As the cliche line that a woman presents "Do I look fat in this" I would prefer to say "Who really cares I am with you that's all that matters. If you did I would invite you to the gym with me and we can solve this problem together" but us male species tend to say "No you look beautiful" Just so a smile ends up on your face. But as the chain letter e-mail also says. If you have to ask you already know the answer.

I started off this blog with the idea of bringing up how terrible the idea of the movie Phat Girlz Is. But went off on a weird tangent.

Oh Well.

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